This poem is based on a literal dream that I had about one of my best friends who passed away a long time ago. A year after she passed away, I met a stranger online who filled me with FEAR about my dead friend. He told me she was in "danger" in the spirit realm & was trying to manipulate me into some kind of weird energy vampire-situation. I eventually blocked this person after a day or two, but the whole thing really unsettled me for a long time. Then eventually I had this dream of metting with my friend & talking with her & it set all my emotions straight. All of this to say, do not let people try to fill you with fear about your dead loved ones. Anytime that is happening, it's a red flag.